坏习惯

最近好象有一些电子自动回复，

回自动的对你的文章作一些比较莫宁两可的回复，

比如“ 你的文章很棒，这货物哪里买？。。。”

看到了都有点心淡，

希望我的文章可以给真的喜欢看的人，

今天突然间很想说坏习惯的影响，

可能是自己太多坏习惯了，

人的命运，不是看人生得怎么样，

是看你的好和坏习惯，

很多人都说江山易改，本性难移，

从小索造的坏习惯，

十年，二十年，三十年，

要改真的可以很难，

命运分成两种，

一个家庭背景，

而另一个就是习惯了，

没有人是天生脾气暴躁，

没有人一出生就爱耍性子，

更没有人一出生就飞横腾达，

人生的一点一滴是自己创造出来的。

习惯了不去尝试新事物的人明显的很容易和世界脱轨。

习惯了逃避责任就没有经验面对压力，面对现实。

习惯了没喝多水，嘴唇爆裂，可能就没有女孩子要亲你了！

坏习惯可能就把每件美好的机会抹杀，把事情搞坏。

不知道的人就会说这就是自己的命运，

不把自己的坏习惯改掉，

就好象把自己的美好前途毁坏一样。

如果你不信你可以试看在老板面前

挖鼻子，拔脚皮，头皮一大堆，没精神。。。

怎么样成大器？

要改变自己的命运就改变那个

本性难移的坏习惯吧！！

好久没部落格了

大家，

我本人事业心重，

生活也没有想象中顺利，

希望不要介意我那么久写blog的习惯，

最近不知道怎么回事，

我的脑袋好象极速退化，

一百样事情就五十样忘记，

三十样记错，二十样记不完。

好象没有事情能够真的记得。

就连自己去年生日怎么过也不记得了。

知道了问题，开始把容易的事情拍照起来，

比如泊车位。

有事开始觉得自己越来越差劲，

公司难题个个帮不上忙，

最亲密的人也离我而去。。。

感觉今年过了整个霉运年。

有人说“霉运的结束，也就是幸运的开始。”

真的吗？希望如此。

一路以来，我的人生目标

就是索造未来

稳定的事业，

中上收入，

组织小家庭。

经过了那么多事情后，

突然迷失了方向。。

没有记性，事业也越来越模糊了。

没有了人生伴侣，家庭可说是未来的事。

有没有未来更是未知数，

世界末日可能更明朗。

都知道是我短见还是，

人们在欺骗自己，

我只知道在人生结束前要痛痛快快！！

人生有多少个十年？

最重要痛痛快快！！

耐人寻味

“如果我还有一天的寿命，那天我要做你的女友。

我还有一天的命吗？没有。

所以，很可惜。我今生仍然不是你的女友。

如果我有翅膀，我要从天堂飞下来看你。

我有翅膀吗？没有。

所以，很遗憾。我从此无法再看到你。

如果把整个浴缸的水倒出，也浇不灭我对你爱情的火焰。

整个浴缸的水全部倒得出吗？可以。

所以，是的，我爱你。”

第一次亲密接触

蔡智恒 着

刚刚看完了这片短篇小说，

形容了一个短暂的爱情故事，

带来的漫长的浪漫回忆。

书面更说着

“如果你没读过 《第一次亲密接触》

你不会知道爱情是什么。

但是你不会不读《第一次亲密接触》

所以你一定知道爱情是什么。

看完了的感想也只能说

人生短暂。

分分钟明天已不在人世，

一切的人间繁华也只是一阵风。

只有留下来的回忆和事物，

牵动着尚在人间的凡人。

往往人们的一生都被活埋在

忙忙碌碌的工作里，

赚取金钱来兑现所需和无需的事务

败坏了健康，

到头来，

赚到的也只是天堂的灰尘。

若没有金钱

健康的身躯也就漫无目的的

浪费了一生漫长的岁月。

到头来，

人生也只是天堂的灰尘。

耐人寻味。。。

耐人寻味。。

How do we know they are real but not an excuse for themselves?

Tonight is a night that i am damn sleepy

and i don't even dare to touch my bed...

One of the reason is because I have a meeting in

early in the morning.

So, was reminded by my colleagues that I had

kinda long period never blog before alr.

So thats why i am writing what you are reading now.

Recently, I used most of my time in work,

and most of my working time in car.

I thinking for an issue quite a long time in my travel and drive.

That's " Do people mindset or discipline affected by religion?"

I am not mean to any religion or races but

myself is a freethinker and

I seriously don't think I will be bad because of that.

Religion is a "thing" that will teach people to be good to be kind.

But what for those thing that are subjective?

for example, "smoke, drunk, gamble or may be sex before marriage?"

Some religion they banned gamble and alcohol but

you can easily get them in Toto, pub or even club.

I wondering what that's mean?

Some religion prohibited

sex before marriage but

i just knew a lots of them alr broken the rules.

What their excuse is that "modern "

Ya, I have no offence about you guys broken the rules

to be modern,

but when you ask them to have a pray to their parent in Buddha way

they will tell you that their religion not allowing that....

Get what i mean?

It is simple,

they show their religion as their excuse when they not feel like doing it.

they forgot their religion when they want to do something they like.

It's just all my wonder.

There is a better example from terrorist who always said

"I am doing this with the God's direct."

That's seriously what the fcuk!!

So, that's bring me to those father or religion leaders,

who always speak the same dialogue I always heard from them

"last night I was talked to God"

or

"God had spoken to me that...bla bla bla"

No ones will know is that true or not,

because we just enter people's dream,

and another thing we cant tell is that we never

know what will happen to us after we dead.

That's how they can create whatever scenario that will

happen after your death ( or may be your last life)

I am always wondering how they know

how the heaven desgined and how the heaven builded?

Do they exist?

They are if you believe of them.

but never been proven that there is heaven even they believe on it,

isn't that just an imagination?

Judge yourselves..

but I do believe in ghost.

hohoho...

(again I have no mean to any religion,

Its just my wonders..)

The story of Malaysia Road System

Ok guys,

The story was like that,

my company looking for a marketing executive and

actually call me to go our nearest taylor college to

paste a notice to hire ppl.

So, I did so.

I went and i paste in a 7-11 mart.

It's done and i Wanna go from

the TAYLOR COLLEGE to SUNWAY PYRAMID

and found that we actually cant U turn back to the way like a show

in the picture below. (Suppose Direction1)

(Suppose Direction1)

PS: Blow Bigger to see the detail!!!

So, I not able to make a u-turn there so,

i have no choice to follow the way out to LDP,

under the Canon Bridge.

Then, I realized that they put a sign board there

to say that thee is not allowed for U-turn also.

Pls refer to (Direction 2)

(Direction 2)

So in the end i didt able to et a U-turn back to

Sunway Pyramid which is just near by the place like 1km.

I wait for the freaking long traffic light and

planned to u-turn in somewhere LDP but i noticed that,

they even dun allow u to go straight ahead on the traffic light.

They forced you to turn right?!?!?!?!

See the direction 3 for better understanding

(direction 3)

I turned right and there is a big jam on the federal high way

and i need to go thru all the way to get a u-turn back

and get thru all the traffic again to get back

sunway wich is act 500m from the place i was.

THIS IS THE FINAL DIRECTION I BEEN FORCED TO TAKE.

The Story told us that

The Fella who planned for Malaysia Road System is so

MORONIC!!

Dude, dont use the grass in ur brain to build Malaysia Road System ok?

If you feel hard to enhance the Road System to be better,

mean the grasses in ur mind is getting more and more

even blowing flowers in it alr!!

Eating SHIT is feel better than Driving along the Malaysia Road System

Danger Everywhere

Today i had been told by my fren that

her ex bf's dad had been passed away..

That's kind of sad and sorry for his family.

The causes make his dad leave the world earlier

is Cancer.

Unbelievable that his relatives are

3 in cancer included his dad.

Even my relatives had 2 was dead by cancer.

one is brain and another one is lung cancer,

It was just like everywhere keep happening,

even the people who near us.

It is extremely scary for me.

May be today you are feel good and tmr feel bad

and have a check in hospital and you realized

you alr the last stage of cancer.

Who knows? everything can happen nowadays.

I am wondering why human have such virus around us.

May be we had too much McD,

or drink too much of Coca Cola?

or may be we sleep not enough 5 hours per day?

In the end, i believe is the revolution of technology had mutated

the world natural system.

Chicken not suppose to be grow big in 1 week,

but technology can do that.

There are not suppose to have pill

but technology can do that.

strawberry not suppose to be so sweet,

but technology can do that.

In the end, everything had changed in their DNA or Whatever,

and they started to mutate and became virus for us.

Human are killing human themselves for..

earning more money.

Human is the most selfish creature in the world.

Human had turned the world upside down,

so may be one day the world are going to turn the human upside down as well..

Dun you agree human had destroy the world?

Being Lazy

If you ask me,

What is my dream,

I would answer you

I wanna earn a lots of money and

get a better life with family and my wife (peierr)

I taking every second to did my job well

and hope for increment or more experience as a beginner

I hate those people who wasting time doing nothing,

they will actually hanging around,

everyday yam cha,

play game and all that.

I even hate those people

earn an amount of money and stop working

and travel here and there.

I strongly felt that they are wasting their life

and wasting their good opportunity to have good in career.

But now,

I hope I can be them.

NO matter how much you earned,

you gonna have time to spend it,

you gonna have a healthy body to do the things u like.

I strongly agree them the persons I mentioned just now

can be categorize in Lazy type people,

but whats wrong with lazy?

We only get to live once.

Anyone hoping himself work till he enter the coffin?

Get life easier

You may be the TOP Billionaires like Bill Gates,

But you have no health.

What if you failed to be billionaires and

end up with a lot of illness?

I had thought of this for few months...

So, I decided to be lazy...

but not too lazy.

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2 Fisherman

I would like to share with you a story

that I had heard from somewhere.

There are 2 fishermen were resting on the seaside after their work,

Fisherman B(Shorten to B) curiously ask Fisherman A (Shorten to A)

"Do you have any dream?"

A think for awhile and answer to B

" Nope"

B surprised and said

"What?! You have no dream at all?"

A look at B and ask him,

"What about you?"

B proudly said to A

"Ofcourse, I have, my dream is huge!"

A asked

"What your dream about?"

B said

" I wanna catch more fishes everyday,

i wanna earn more money to

buy a new boat that can have a better performance in catching fish,

so that i can catch more and more fishes,

and i will hire workers to work for me and

change to big ship."

A asked,

"So?"

B are more excited and said,

"So, I will open my own seafood factory

to make can food and seafood products"

A asked again,

"then?"

B are more and more excited , said,

"then i gonna open for branch and branded,

I gonna make my company listing in worldwide share.

By that time I can sell my company for alots of money..."

A asked,

"after that?"

B said,

"After that I wanna buy a resort at the seaside

and enjoy the seaside wind like now..."

A smiled.

B found that he already doing what he dream for.

Both of them continue to enjoy the beauty of the nature...

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Sometimes, we didt realize that actually we are having the dream that we dream for,

We set our target blindly and in the end we just round a big round to end on our

starting point.

Maa Maa Rest in Peace

I had been long time stop blogging,

according to my workload,

other than working time i spend time to go out with frens,

spending time with frens are because i dun wanna lost them,

sometimes i do need to overnight in office,

but that day i open my eyes in office,

i got a call from my mum...

"Maa Maa was gone"

(Maa Maa means grandma in Cantonese)

I tot she wanna say that she was gone to travel or whatever,

but its not.

She is gone from this world...

I stunned and blank in my mind.

I answered that OK i will back hometown now and settle my things

and attend her funeral in Kota Tinggi 15 Jan 2010.

Remember that she eat McD sundae cone in the Holiday plaza

when everytime we visit my uncle's shop.

Remember that she ask for playing the swing and we took picture.

She may be old, but her heart is so young.

communicate with us without any gab.

She like to watch tv series and she is word blind.

She like to guess the story which is not accurate sometimes.

She like us talk Cantonese with her.

She like to drink coffee and tea.

She drink milo when she hungry.

She play tai chi every morning when her legs are working well.

She like to give me money everytime i back kota from KL.

She always cant sit down to eat during new year,

she will keep go into kitchen to take more things for us.

She think alot but she didt tell all.

She is more clever than before.

She had a dog call pinky last time and it is gone.

She wanna go my convo badly,

She was getting weak.

She sicked.

and she is gone.

Wherever she gone,

which world she goes to,

she was our great maa maa,

she was a great mum,

she treat everyone good

although some are over but

she just enjoy treating them good.

She was like a hen.

Protect and gave all her best things to her child and grandchild.

She tried her best to spread her love to everyone

because she do love everyone.

May be I'm not the one who know her most,

but i do love her.

I miss her voice,

I miss her dishes,

I miss that she throws key down to us,

I miss that her cooking in the kitchen,

I miss that her shopping in KINI,

I miss that her sitting in my dad's volvo,

I miss that she sitting on her chair,

I miss that she eat sundae cone with me,

I miss her laugh,

I miss she said that

"Never talk, Never laugh"

I miss she say bye bye to me

everytime I going back from the stairs.

I miss her warms.

I miss the time she with us.

You already gave your best to us.

Maa Maa Rest in Peace.