Life after Grad

In this moment, I have couple idea wanna blog out.
One is about graduation and another is about gossip.
In between both, I made a decision -

Graduation first.
No matter how saying good things is better than saying bad things.
As u know, I'm final year student and probably this sem will be my last sem in Uni.
(If everything smooth on. If not this will be the second last sem T.T)

Before enter this sem, I would thought that last sem shud crazy with frens to the max,
play around, fool around, travel around, go prom, go this go that,
but things never go as what u plan or hope.
Final year mean u have to busy ur final year project too to represent
what u had learnt in this 4 years uni life.
So, with that freaking FYP ( final year project)
everyone is busy to prepare it or work on it.
If they have free time, they prefer settle down their own private things like
go out with bf or gf and etc etc etc.

In the end, not everyone have the free time to crazy together.
Some frens told me that, dun worry about that,
after FYP submission we are able to play around alr,
(Suddenly i found that this words are so familiar,
I heard this once before I SPM.
In the end, I cant go out much after SPM)

In my expectation, after FYP we will busy on moving out from this
"Dead City"- Cyberjaya.
Some will busy on apply for job because nowadays economics down,
everyone is worry about the future income and job.
Some will go travel oversea, work oversea..
Some will go back hometown and
some will go to Singapore find job....

After they come back from their trip or hometown,
It is time to work,
Find a job, interview, apply here and there,
after found the job and we have to concentrate in work,
no more late night life, because tmr have to work again,
no more go out play because we have to save money
for car, for house, for wedding ,for everything.
no more yam cha because we are not really staying in a same city
no more go travel around because we cant apply holiday for so long.
no more gossip around because frens around us are just different.

After Grad,
What will we become?
How will we change?
Will u still remember me?
Will we still come together once in awhile?

Fate is in your hand.

One of my favourite book

I cant blog everyday,
the main cause i think is i dun have so many time for blog
the sub reasons is i dun have so many idea to write meaningful blog,

i did hope my blog can inspire some idea for whoever is reading this.
Last few months, I had bought a book.
A mandarin book, which named
" Man who are not bad, Girl wont love."

But in the end, from start reading until half of it.
I found that content is nothing related with guys is how bad.
May be the topic/title is just something to attract ppl like me to buy it.
Marketing strategy.

In another way, i found that this book actually very deep and meaningful.
Until now i have found that the author is a guy or girl who named Wang Xing
Seem like a guy name. but he understand both sexual in a very deep way.

Basically this book is talk about chinese guy have a same attitude in many things,
like stick to mother more, protect bro and sis and so on.
But this similar attitude actually having their reason,
how parent teached them. how dad and mum treat them.

One of his point i found it quite outstanding.
Family normally bias (berat sebelah) on the youngest son/daugther.
Oldest son need to take care of whole family,
youngest son would never have such pressure,
easier to get bias from parents,
middle son most worst,
he might be took care my elder brother since young,
and parent seldom notice him.
This is wat he said in the book.
Of curse he explain why elder like that , youngest like that and etc.
I'm not going to copy all here.
When u read about how he explain the relation of bias.
You will like understanding ur parent more and
you can evade from this kind of mistake next time.

This is some kind issues which seldom people will really go and figure out.
Thats why i like this book.
(basically recently no time for me for reading,
got free time alr go play game. So, i was always read in my toilet) lol

Enjoy with reading