Do not judge a book by its cover.

From I was young,
i believe that u can know a person by seeing their face.
I think it is because My dad know a bit of
physiognomy
mean tell ur attitude by looking on ur face.
In chinese , we call it "看相"

So, I keep believe that
act ppl can tell attitudes by physiognomy
Like ppl say upper lip thick mean the person care sex more
like ppl say lower lip thick mean care relationship more
and there is many other way to see their attitude.

BUT sometimes i found it not work on certain ppl.
there is 2 reason might cause this happen.
1. because i dunno the theory of the physiognomy.
2. it really cant work on certain ppl.
like the lips case, if that's true then
those African guys all caring sex and relationship?
impossible right?

So, is it work on chinese only?
I dun think so,
alot of case i tested few times are not accurate enough.
like one case is like 2 ppl face are quite same
but they are damn different ppl and attitude. T.T

So, In this case,
I gonna use back another quote in chinese
"人不可貌相"
mean "Do not judge a book by its cover".
Chinese really contradictory.

強姦犯的自白 (女孩子必看 )

如果妳沒看過，請仔細看完；如果妳曾經看過，建議妳再看一遍。
許多強暴犯認為，具有「被害者」的第一個特質，是她們的髮型。
他們最喜歡跟在「綁馬尾」，有髮髻或綁辮子的女性身後，
或是其他可以輕易抓住她的髮型。
他們也喜歡跟住長髮女性，短髮的女性不常會是目標。強暴犯考慮的第二件事是「衣著」，他們會找尋穿著「可迅速脫去」的女性。
他們認為，最好的穿著是一件式的罩衫（例如：洋裝、連身裙）。
因為許多強暴犯會隨身攜帶剪刀，來剪開衣。
　他們亦會跟上正在說大哥大，正在找錢包；或在走路時，作其他事的女性。
因為她們會毫無防備，而且可以輕易的被控制住。
正天的時間中，他們喜歡在一大早攻擊和強暴女性（她們此時清爽、乾淨）。
易發生攻擊的地點是商站前的停車場，第二名是公司的停車場或車庫，
第三名是公共廁所 ,這些強暴犯所想的，就是抓住女性後，
他們可以迅速移往第二個地點，使他們不必擔心被抓到。
只有 2％的人，會帶武器（因為被抓到判刑的話、罪較輕）。
如果，妳在當下有激烈反抗，他們通常會退縮。
因為，只要花了一兩分鐘，他們就會知道，上妳是不值得的，也會浪費過多的時間。強暴犯說，他們不會選上帶著「雨傘或其他類似物品的女性」，
因為這可以用來造成防禦的距離所以，
要使強暴犯產生「妳並不是適合被攻擊的對象」的念頭。
如果有人在街上或停車場中跟著妳，或是在電梯或手扶梯上，直視他們的臉，
而且問他們問題：
現在幾點了？或是進行禮貌性的交談。我簡直不敢相信，這裡會這麼冷 ? 今天天氣真差!
因為，現在妳已經看到他們的臉，而且可以在鏡子後面指認他們，妳也因此失去成為他們目標的機會.如果有人正靠近妳，將妳的手伸至胸前，並大喊站住或退後。如果女性大喊或表現不怕反擊回去的態度，他們就會離開。
再次提醒，他們尋找的是「容易」的目標，他們要的是一個不會惹麻煩的女人。
如果開始惹了麻煩，那麼他將會逃離現場.

Here is a broken translate + direct translate with Yahoo Translate. Hope u can understand. XD

If you have not looked, please carefully look; If you had looked, suggested that you look at again.
Many violent commits believed that has “the injured party” the first special characteristic, is their hairstyle.
They most like following in “to tie up the horse's tail”, has the chignon or ties up braid's female after death,
Perhaps other may hold her hairstyle easily.
They also like tailing the long hair female, the short hair feminine regular session are not the goals. The violent commit consideration's second matter is “the attire”, they will pursue are putting on “may take off rapidly” the female.
They believed that best is putting on is -like overalls (e.g.: Foreign-style clothing, Lian Shenqun).
Because many violent commit body carrying scissors, will cut the clothes.
　They will also follow to say the mobile phone, will be looking for the wallet; Or when walking, is other matter's female.
Because they meet do not guard against, moreover may easily control.
In the day's time, they like in early morning attack and the violent female (they this time neat, clean).
Before easy to have the attack place is business stands the parking lot, second is company's parking lot or the garage,
Third is the public toilet, these violent commits thought that after is holds the female,
They may move rapidly toward the second place, causes them not to need to worry that is caught.
Only then 2% people, can bring the weapon (, because is caught sentence words, crime to be light).
If, you in have the intense revolt immediately, they will usually flinch.
Because, so long as has spent 1-2 minutes, they will know, on you will not be worth, also will waste the excessively much time. The violent commit said that they will not elect to bring “the umbrella or other similar goods female”,
Because this may use for to create the defense the distance, therefore,
Must make the violent commit production “you are not suits the object which attacks” thought.
If some people on the street either in the parking lot with you, perhaps in the elevator or on the hand staircase with a handrail, look straight ahead their face,
Moreover asks their question:
Now how many? Perhaps carries on the polite conversation. I do not dare to believe simply that here can be such cold? Today the weather misses really!
Because, you already saw their face now, moreover may indicate and confirm them behind the mirror, you also therefore loses into their goal the opportunity. If some people are approaching you, extends yours hand to the front, and shouted that halts or withdraws. If the female shouts or the performance did not fear counter-attacks the manner, they will leave.
Reminds once more, what they seek is “easy” goal, what they want will be one will not annoy the troublesome woman.
If started to annoy troublesome, then he will flee the scene.

Memorize

Life is like making memorize.
When u did something good, people remember it,
and u will be call as a good man.
When u did something bad, people remember it,
and u will be call as a bad man.
When people dunno or forgot u did that bad thing before.
You are a good man too, because they didt remember u bad before.

When anything goes wrong if u able to wash everyone's brain,
you can make a new life but it is somehow impossible.
Because memorize is a very abstract thing,
you cant know what i remember and i cant observes you memorize.

So, sometimes you might became who u not really wan to.
Because people misunderstand your action as another meaning and
they assume that as the truth to became their memorize on you.

What people remember is very hard to control,
basically the input of they memorize is from eyes and secondary is ears and so on.
So why not we control what people see and what people hear, right?

Life after Grad

In this moment, I have couple idea wanna blog out.
One is about graduation and another is about gossip.
In between both, I made a decision -

Graduation first.
No matter how saying good things is better than saying bad things.
As u know, I'm final year student and probably this sem will be my last sem in Uni.
(If everything smooth on. If not this will be the second last sem T.T)

Before enter this sem, I would thought that last sem shud crazy with frens to the max,
play around, fool around, travel around, go prom, go this go that,
but things never go as what u plan or hope.
Final year mean u have to busy ur final year project too to represent
what u had learnt in this 4 years uni life.
So, with that freaking FYP ( final year project)
everyone is busy to prepare it or work on it.
If they have free time, they prefer settle down their own private things like
go out with bf or gf and etc etc etc.

In the end, not everyone have the free time to crazy together.
Some frens told me that, dun worry about that,
after FYP submission we are able to play around alr,
(Suddenly i found that this words are so familiar,
I heard this once before I SPM.
In the end, I cant go out much after SPM)

In my expectation, after FYP we will busy on moving out from this
"Dead City"- Cyberjaya.
Some will busy on apply for job because nowadays economics down,
everyone is worry about the future income and job.
Some will go travel oversea, work oversea..
Some will go back hometown and
some will go to Singapore find job....

After they come back from their trip or hometown,
It is time to work,
Find a job, interview, apply here and there,
after found the job and we have to concentrate in work,
no more late night life, because tmr have to work again,
no more go out play because we have to save money
for car, for house, for wedding ,for everything.
no more yam cha because we are not really staying in a same city
no more go travel around because we cant apply holiday for so long.
no more gossip around because frens around us are just different.

After Grad,
What will we become?
How will we change?
Will u still remember me?
Will we still come together once in awhile?

Fate is in your hand.

One of my favourite book

I cant blog everyday,
the main cause i think is i dun have so many time for blog
the sub reasons is i dun have so many idea to write meaningful blog,

i did hope my blog can inspire some idea for whoever is reading this.
Last few months, I had bought a book.
A mandarin book, which named
" Man who are not bad, Girl wont love."

But in the end, from start reading until half of it.
I found that content is nothing related with guys is how bad.
May be the topic/title is just something to attract ppl like me to buy it.
Marketing strategy.

In another way, i found that this book actually very deep and meaningful.
Until now i have found that the author is a guy or girl who named Wang Xing
Seem like a guy name. but he understand both sexual in a very deep way.

Basically this book is talk about chinese guy have a same attitude in many things,
like stick to mother more, protect bro and sis and so on.
But this similar attitude actually having their reason,
how parent teached them. how dad and mum treat them.

One of his point i found it quite outstanding.
Family normally bias (berat sebelah) on the youngest son/daugther.
Oldest son need to take care of whole family,
youngest son would never have such pressure,
easier to get bias from parents,
middle son most worst,
he might be took care my elder brother since young,
and parent seldom notice him.
This is wat he said in the book.
Of curse he explain why elder like that , youngest like that and etc.
I'm not going to copy all here.
When u read about how he explain the relation of bias.
You will like understanding ur parent more and
you can evade from this kind of mistake next time.

This is some kind issues which seldom people will really go and figure out.
Thats why i like this book.
(basically recently no time for me for reading,
got free time alr go play game. So, i was always read in my toilet) lol

Enjoy with reading

The road not taken

I'm going to grad soon.
As a fresh grad desginer.
There are god damn many of different roads in front of me at the moment,
I analyzed them,
they left 3 roads infront of me.
Normal road, depends road and unknown road.
normal road is be a normal ppl,
do work sleep ..do work sleep..do work sleep..
depends road is depends to the big company wan me or not?
accept? reject?accept? reject?accept? reject?
unknown road is i walk the road myself.
there is actually no road.

and i feel that is most interesting for me.
I dun like to walk the road ppl always walk.
I also dun like always depends on ppl.
I cant plan my thing before it happen.
I wan to walk my own way, but there is
actually no road.
I am so afraid that I will meet a dead end one day in this road.
before i choose, i sit on the junction now.
Drinking my high tea and starring on the unknown road.

"Is my luck able to defeat your mystical?"

Another perspective

Woaah, is a very long time i didt blog alr, almost forgot wat is blog alr. no la. kidding nia. hope you r still so happy to follow my blog ^^

This is a quite old story alr. i suddenly remind it and feel like sharing with u all. When i was intern, i changed my shampoo once to a brand call (RejoXXe) one. In me brain , i remember i like this brand when i was young. So i decided to give it another chance to be my shampoo again. I bought it and used for a very short period. My hair started have a lot of dandruff. Oh my god. I seldom have dandruff before and that time i have it. I damn fan and i dunno why. In the end, my boss suggest me use head and shoulder. It is best, ya everyone knows that but it is damn expensive too.

At last, I changed back to Sunsilk which i used before i change my shampoo (before i finish the god damn RejoXXe and my problem solved.

This is just the beginning .

One day, I go makan with my boss and i saw a guy who had alot of dandruff ( that time quite long ago from my dandruff case). My first expression is.... yerrr. why this guy so geli one, got a lot of dandruff. I sumore show to my boss to let him see how serious it is. Then my boss very serious and reply me this :-

"Actually it is just a problem with choosing on a wrong brand of shampoo."

One sentence. What u get from it? It is actually not the guy fault. He may be was like me, trusted to a suck branded shampoo and dun waste it so keep using it. When he change to Sunsilk or wat other branded he will be handsome back or better. So, with this story, what i get is, don't ever judge a problem from the surface. We see the dandruff and we judge the guy or girl is a very geli, dirty person. Hell no, we shud think deeper and different perspective. From another perspective, we might found that actually not his problem or fault. So, many problems will be solved peacefully. I hope this article will inspire u something to ur life. It inspire to my life too.

I was not that like a girl in my class last last time (past alr),because she very 38, crazy, dunno what can do and dunno what cannot do. and etc etc etc.) I feel that she is very troublesome and very "leceh". but then from another angle and perspective.I shud thank you her, if she is not here, we might loss a lot of happiness, craziness. She bring the humor to us. She make us laugh till stomache. From another perspective i found her character. She is good and not that bad as i saw the surface.