Xiao Jiang

Thursday, March 19, 2009

One of my favourite book

I cant blog everyday,
the main cause i think is i dun have so many time for blog
the sub reasons is i dun have so many idea to write meaningful blog,

i did hope my blog can inspire some idea for whoever is reading this.
Last few months, I had bought a book.
A mandarin book, which named
" Man who are not bad, Girl wont love."

But in the end, from start reading until half of it.
I found that content is nothing related with guys is how bad.
May be the topic/title is just something to attract ppl like me to buy it.
Marketing strategy.

In another way, i found that this book actually very deep and meaningful.
Until now i have found that the author is a guy or girl who named Wang Xing
Seem like a guy name. but he understand both sexual in a very deep way.

Basically this book is talk about chinese guy have a same attitude in many things,
like stick to mother more, protect bro and sis and so on.
But this similar attitude actually having their reason,
how parent teached them. how dad and mum treat them.

One of his point i found it quite outstanding.
Family normally bias (berat sebelah) on the youngest son/daugther.
Oldest son need to take care of whole family,
youngest son would never have such pressure,
easier to get bias from parents,
middle son most worst,
he might be took care my elder brother since young,
and parent seldom notice him.
This is wat he said in the book.
Of curse he explain why elder like that , youngest like that and etc.
I'm not going to copy all here.
When u read about how he explain the relation of bias.
You will like understanding ur parent more and
you can evade from this kind of mistake next time.

This is some kind issues which seldom people will really go and figure out.
Thats why i like this book.
(basically recently no time for me for reading,
got free time alr go play game. So, i was always read in my toilet) lol

Enjoy with reading

Friday, February 27, 2009

The road not taken

I'm going to grad soon.
As a fresh grad desginer.
There are god damn many of different roads in front of me at the moment,
I analyzed them,
they left 3 roads infront of me.
Normal road, depends road and unknown road.
normal road is be a normal ppl,
do work sleep ..do work sleep..do work sleep..
depends road is depends to the big company wan me or not?
accept? reject?accept? reject?accept? reject?
unknown road is i walk the road myself.
there is actually no road.

and i feel that is most interesting for me.
I dun like to walk the road ppl always walk.
I also dun like always depends on ppl.
I cant plan my thing before it happen.
I wan to walk my own way, but there is
actually no road.
I am so afraid that I will meet a dead end one day in this road.
before i choose, i sit on the junction now.
Drinking my high tea and starring on the unknown road.

"Is my luck able to defeat your mystical?"

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Another perspective

Woaah, is a very long time i didt blog alr, almost forgot wat is blog alr. no la. kidding nia. hope you r still so happy to follow my blog ^^

This is a quite old story alr. i suddenly remind it and feel like sharing with u all. When i was intern, i changed my shampoo once to a brand call (RejoXXe) one. In me brain , i remember i like this brand when i was young. So i decided to give it another chance to be my shampoo again. I bought it and used for a very short period. My hair started have a lot of dandruff. Oh my god. I seldom have dandruff before and that time i have it. I damn fan and i dunno why. In the end, my boss suggest me use head and shoulder. It is best, ya everyone knows that but it is damn expensive too.

At last, I changed back to Sunsilk which i used before i change my shampoo (before i finish the god damn RejoXXe and my problem solved.

This is just the beginning .

One day, I go makan with my boss and i saw a guy who had alot of dandruff ( that time quite long ago from my dandruff case). My first expression is.... yerrr. why this guy so geli one, got a lot of dandruff. I sumore show to my boss to let him see how serious it is. Then my boss very serious and reply me this :-

"Actually it is just a problem with choosing on a wrong brand of shampoo."

One sentence. What u get from it? It is actually not the guy fault. He may be was like me, trusted to a suck branded shampoo and dun waste it so keep using it. When he change to Sunsilk or wat other branded he will be handsome back or better. So, with this story, what i get is, don't ever judge a problem from the surface. We see the dandruff and we judge the guy or girl is a very geli, dirty person. Hell no, we shud think deeper and different perspective. From another perspective, we might found that actually not his problem or fault. So, many problems will be solved peacefully. I hope this article will inspire u something to ur life. It inspire to my life too.

I was not that like a girl in my class last last time (past alr),because she very 38, crazy, dunno what can do and dunno what cannot do. and etc etc etc.) I feel that she is very troublesome and very "leceh". but then from another angle and perspective.I shud thank you her, if she is not here, we might loss a lot of happiness, craziness. She bring the humor to us. She make us laugh till stomache. From another perspective i found her character. She is good and not that bad as i saw the surface.